However, with the majority of online-listed existing properties, you can see that after the first move-in, nothing, absolutely nothing has been changed. I am often shocked.
yes, but sorry, why should they, if they still like it?!
There are still wooden ceilings and wood paneling on the walls, the bathrooms are a white oasis with 15x15cm tile format up to the ceiling, and the kitchen has wooden fronts from the 80s. The carpets show the owners' walk tracks. Sometimes I wonder if people are not "house proud," as we say.
Sometimes I wonder whether you are a teenager or an experienced and knowledgeable woman. Why should one always update their place to the latest trend? Just because there are Schöner-Wohnen magazines (or Pinterest), you don't have to copy everything. Everyone goes with _their_ time! You too! And if someone built a modern house, it remains modern for its time. Yes, after 10 years or with eyes 10 years younger, probably 10 years old and old-fashioned, but you don't have to keep up with superficial trends so quickly if you (still) like it and everything fits the style and still has exactly the charm it had 10 years ago. Charm with patina is even somewhat more prestigious… yes, not among superficial fellow citizens, but among those who engage with the house and its origins.
What you accuse others of also applies to you: what one sees here from you (not your daughter) could also be called old-fashioned. The advice to just tidy up a bit and bring structure into your house might be appropriate for you. I remember a few pictures… But no one would say they were "shocked" to see your house… nor would they ask you if you are not "House Proud."