I find it already bad when the middle class disappears (unless you inherit). After parental leave, we end up with 7000k net (both then at 80% part-time) and will have to rent. I am licensed and have had my specialist certification since last year. I’m curious how things will continue. And I am aware that despite the low salary, we are complaining at a high level.
The middle class is not disappearing. The median just lies at an absolutely higher household income. You just have to save nicely for another 5-10 years, that will work out. You’re still young! We do have more income, but were able to save about 50-60k per year. Just be frugal, then you can put aside a decent amount. But the best would be if you had about 1,800 net and, like almost everyone out there, got start-up capital from daddy, then even the government would have added Baukindergeld ;) I’m being cynical again, but that’s how it is here. On your own initiative you can catch up, but it’s not enough.
7k is just average nowadays, you won’t catch up without inheritance.