HansDampf88
2022-04-19 15:03:25
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That is exactly the point for a family council. With parents, grandparents, and siblings around the table, laying everything open and finding a solution together, or also canceling. The statement, then we postpone the cruise, the motorhome, the new car and keep the money in reserve, can provide new security. Without everyone going into debt
Well-meaning and sensible advice. Unfortunately, it is of little use in our situation. I come from very simple circumstances, mother is a hairdresser, father was out for a long time due to illness, so he first has to catch up himself and build up savings for old age. My partner’s parents are also simple workers who first have to pay off their own place. As I said, every single cent saved and earned by ourselves. I also have friends in my circle who are simply going for it. Their dad is a lawyer or CEO. If it costs 50k € or more or it just takes 6 months longer, that’s not a big deal. That’s, of course, a different situation. Almost enviable. But I wish it for everyone.
To come back to your advice: The topic has already been openly discussed in our family. The general opinion is: cancel, look for a bigger rental apartment, be happy there, and in safer times, when the children are out of the worst, build or buy something.