askforafriend
2022-04-18 13:45:51
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When I'm older, I want to live directly in the center of Leipzig (of course preferably a penthouse, but probably unaffordable for me) between the Gewandhaus (culture), Barfußgäßchen (inspiration, people "watching") and the Tschibo standing café (social contacts). :)
No, you should live away from the city – because the children desperately need these apartments to study! Oh, and you also have to move out of the single-family house with 200 sqm. Hmm, maybe then even leave Germany, to the retiree island? Maybe that would then be considered morally right?
Joking aside – live and let live. Our parents both live in a 200+ sqm house each with two people, so where’s the problem? Am I not allowed to fulfill my own dream of owning a house because of that? If they moved out, they could sell their houses for 500k plus. But where would they go then? Should we deport them because they are old (50 plus), should they move into a 50 sqm single apartment in Berlin-Marzahn? Why? What was the single-family house built for in the first place? Exactly, to offer us something. That you can play in the garden. That you grow up in a good neighborhood and not in a multi-family bunker where drugs are dealt. According to some here, parents should immediately sell house and property once the children have moved out. Where is then the “homecoming place” for the children? Isn’t that exactly what’s beautiful about family? That you can always return – no matter where you are during the year – to where you grew up?
When I’m at that age with my wife and my children are 20 plus, I will be damned if I leave my dream house. They would have to come and get me. That’s why I’m building.
Some people really have opinions, wow.