Pinkiponk
2022-08-05 06:18:36
- #1
I come from an environment where two children of different genders had to share a room and can say that undisturbed learning is made quite difficult by this. Also bringing visitors, which has the disadvantage that it is more difficult for parents to casually find out what kind of people the child is associating with. I assume that many of the young people who hang out in rather, let's call them, "questionable" places belong to those who have no room, no retreat possibilities, and no own realm at home where they can try out and realize themselves (just singing loudly, dancing, conducting an orchestra, playing air guitar, dressing up, daydreaming ;-)). I also think that the influence of so-called "peer groups" becomes even greater if children can never be alone at home, cannot think or reflect undisturbed. In my experience, it makes a difference whether a child/teenager is "on the street" (or "flees" to the street) because it is exciting and interesting there or because they have no space at home.Sounds harsh, but maybe one should slowly say goodbye to the standard; every child gets their own room;. Children can also share a room. Just adjust one's own needs/dreams a bit to the given circumstances.