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Education is already predetermined. Even if a child is born with naturally good intelligence, but the environment is difficult and there are no good role models, the likelihood of making a breakthrough simply diminishes immensely. And honestly... to those who are parents here: do your children have contact with children from precarious backgrounds? So where should the role models come from?
As a child, I was once invited by the family of a friend to a week of riding camp so that she wouldn't have to go alone. God, what a stroke of luck that was for me. We could never have afforded those 250 DM in a million years.
that's probably true. Of course, there are exceptions. My father is a master tailor, a very poorly paid craft profession. Nevertheless, my brother achieved the highest academic title. He is a professor at FOM, and they also take care to make sure these things can be done differently in the future. My brother reports exactly what you described here. Extremely difficult, but not impossible to make a "class switch."
My sister as well as I dropped out of university, but fortunately none of us are low earners anymore ;-). All the children of my siblings (there are six) have, at the latest on the second educational path, finished their studies or are still working on them. I have no biological children, "only" one adopted child and two stepchildren. They come from a very poor background abroad, and only the youngest "made it" with a lot of support (private school) to get a good degree (not a university degree).
Also: I only never had my own room very early on (shared with my brother), despite very, very little money in the family, I never had the impression that I was missing anything or couldn't do something I wanted to do.