We also deliberately decided against a fireplace or, as I would better say, a firepit.
I always had a large fireplace in my parents' house. Here, every year you have to get wood, chop it, let it dry, and when it's already cold outside, go out and fill the basket inside. We always said that such a fireplace heats you up multiple times.
In the end, for me, that would be the only aspect that makes the evening really cozy. Nice and cold and windy outside, and inside the wood crackles away. The warmth is also nice, but in our old house from the 70s, it was not enough to heat everything. Honestly, for me, that would be more of a plaything than anything else.