Build a terraced end house with an additional unit (GÜ) on your own

2020-08-12 18:58:34

He could certainly also be a difficult character if he weren't of Turkish descent...?!?

However, being so poorly compatible with the habitat "German new housing estate," he would have to be a special education dropout – just trying to operate a crane over already inhabited houses is enough to think twice on its own.

2020-08-12 19:09:45

I certainly did not want to start a racism discussion here at the fence. I only spoke about my experience and then the topic drifted with follow-up questions which I still answered. But of course we can consider the topic of my neighbor as closed in this thread.

2020-08-12 20:00:34

It is just much quieter here than in the apartment where they lived before. It was on one of the main roads of this city. Now they live on a side street. They don’t consider themselves loud at all. It’s just that there are always many people here, especially in the evenings, who all speak loudly. Turkish also apparently is a language that expresses itself through volume. They meet here in the evenings to drink tea and smoke shisha. Presumably, they discuss everything under the sun. I don’t understand it. Furthermore, for example, they can’t ring the doorbell. Arrival is signaled with the horn, no matter what time, until the person concerned comes out. The car engine can’t be turned off, strangers park in driveways... and it goes on like that. When the father/husband died back then, 1,500 visitors came here over a period of 2-3 weeks to console. You can’t imagine what was going on here day and night. Our neighbors have lived here since the 60s, the woman still doesn’t speak German and they live here as if in the village they came from. The youngest son is now engaged. There was the engagement party in the garden some time ago, as we found out the next day, because he apologized that it probably was loud again. He doesn’t know his fiancée yet, she is still in Turkey. Just so you understand.

What keeps you there? Is your house/property so unique that you couldn’t live anywhere else?

2020-08-12 20:05:22

What keeps you there? Is your house/property so unique that you couldn't live anywhere else?

All right, then I withdraw the question.

2020-08-12 20:43:07

If it is so poorly compatible with the biotope "German new housing development," it would have to be a special school dropout - no sense at all in wanting to operate the crane over already inhabited houses.

That the future neighbor is acting completely wrongly and inexplicably here is undisputed.

2020-08-13 08:06:57

Nevertheless, the question remains whether and, if so, how the poisoned relationship could be made bearable again. I find this just as important as the question of how the middle class can build in such a way that it is bearable for everyone. In (WEG) administration, we often have "learning problems" with nations where construction/WEG law looks completely different or is handled more laxly. There, the decisiveness of an individual often carries more weight than a set of rules. And most of the time, it quickly comes down to grievances. Therefore, it might help if the emotional and factual aspects could be disentangled a bit, and the question would be how to get to the core. One could try it with a reasonable mediator. For one party, professional competence may be the priority and they might be able to temporarily subordinate feelings; for the other party, it might be more effective if it is about trust and respect.

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