Build a terraced end house with an additional unit (GÜ) on your own

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Pinkiponk

2020-08-12 18:08:33
  • #1
I don't understand that. How can you appreciate peace and still make loud noise? A sincere question: Do your neighbors have so little ability to grasp abstract concepts?
 

shenja

2020-08-12 18:31:36
  • #2
It is much quieter here than in the apartment where they lived before. It was on one of the main roads of this city. Now they live on a side street. They don’t find themselves loud at all. There are just always many people here, especially in the evenings, all talking loudly. Turkish apparently is also a language that expresses itself through volume. They meet here in the evenings to drink tea and smoke shisha. Presumably, they discuss everything and anything. I don’t understand it. Furthermore, for example, they can’t ring the doorbell. Arrival is signaled with the horn, no matter how late, until the person concerned comes out. The car engine cannot be turned off, foreign driveways are there for parking... it goes on like that. When the father/husband died back then, over a period of 2–3 weeks 1,500 visitors came here to console. You can’t imagine what was going on here day and night. Our neighbors have lived here since the 60s, the woman still doesn’t speak German and they live here as if in the village they came from. The youngest son is now engaged. Some time ago there was the engagement party in the garden, as we found out the next day because he apologized that it was probably loud again. He does not yet know his fiancée, she is still in [der Türkei]. Just for understanding.
 

11ant

2020-08-12 18:38:33
  • #3
I was referring to Turks, who – which of course only applies to a majority – are Muslims. How Alevis are, I’m not so familiar with. Kurds are quite heterogeneous, as can hardly be expected otherwise for a people spread across several states (where they are sometimes more, sometimes less loved and tolerated). To my knowledge, however, it is customary in all cultures that we would lump together under "Arabic" from our perspective that the uncle is a respected person (and a role model) – and the equivalent of what we would call the "pastor" as well. So the uncle is the key in your case: if you can "warm him up" to your perspective, then he is your multiplier – otherwise, you remain "lost" as long as he belongs to the faction of the black considerate smurfs.
 

MelanieSH

2020-08-12 18:48:35
  • #4
I have followed the thread with great interest so far. I do not like the direction the discussion is now taking at all. He could certainly be a difficult character if he were not of Turkish descent...?!?
 

Smialbuddler

2020-08-12 18:50:19
  • #5
 

goalkeeper

2020-08-12 18:51:41
  • #6
I also believe that the discussion about origin could be ended here.
 
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