We are building with an elevator.
The doorbell and letter and package box are near the driveway on the property.
From experience, friends and family park in the garage and enter the house there.
The separate house entrance is around the house and will probably almost never be used.
The mail is delivered at the front anyway. For the few registered letters, he can also walk around the house or I can go through the garage.
I notice as soon as someone drives onto the property.
Of course, there is a security concept with 18 cameras, alarm system, locking system, corresponding protection class for windows and doors as well as monitoring of these, motion sensors, etc...
You just have to be a harder target than the neighbor.
In our area, there are several large estates. Nothing ever really happens there. It is always the older poorly secured single-family homes.
But we are not building a prison. If someone is determined, they will get in everywhere.
So no 3-meter wall with NATO wire. We want to live here and not hide away. Fear is a bad advisor.