I feel the same way, Altai ...
105,000 annual gross (with 2 children) is by no means little - in my eyes, those are already the "better earners" - no wonder everyone talks about the "free rider effect"...
And yet there are certainly enough lower earners who see their dream come true because of it.
Not everyone is able to keep a cool head when fulfilling their dream, and all too often such people fall for clever financial advisors.
If the Baukindergeld then doesn't work out, it's a disaster.
So ... enough philosophizing ...