R.Hotzenplotz
2018-05-19 11:21:17
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Unfortunately, it doesn't sound like this will ever be a truly harmonious neighborhood with you, and personally, I find that sad.
That remains to be seen. With my parents, it's like this: they live in a semi-detached house and haven't spoken a word to the neighbors for 15 years and don't even acknowledge each other with a glance. The neighbor interferes everywhere. He once called a neighbor who lives across the street (!!) (I think about 30 meters away in a straight line from his house) and yelled at the people that the lady of the house was sunbathing naked in her garden. That was offensive and unacceptable, that he had to see that (retirees and the woman is a fit Latvian aged 30).
That's why an apartment, a terraced house, or a semi-detached house was never an option for us. You have no influence on who the neighbors are or how they behave—and even if you do, they can move away.
Do you like nosy neighbors who immediately ask all kinds of "intimate" questions, want to know everything, and through their remarks also make it clear that they see everything, know everything, and at the same time consider themselves a moral and regulatory authority? I find that difficult. I prefer people who behave more reservedly.