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2018-05-27 19:41:39
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Ok, accepted! [emoji4]
Would you still be so kind and show me where you get the assessment from that one is "already more or less accepted as neighbors and live side by side"? I can't understand how what I wrote can be interpreted that way.
Who are you referring to there? I actually only wrote about the neighbors with the second new building, and from that it really couldn’t be read that they accept each other there. I would like to understand that. Of course, you can assess that this other new resident lied with his statement, that other neighbors also had bad experiences with the said persons. That would mean they would be just as inappropriate and misplaced in the neighborhood as we are?
But I really had to read your question three times now and delete two posts again because I didn’t exactly understand what you want from me now [emoji4]
When I mention the topic neighborhood here, I mean the general neighborhood, and not your A or your neighbor B. The rest is too much "hearsay" for me.
I admit that I have read everything from your posts, but I certainly omit one thing or another. However, it seems to me that he already had some trouble with his boundary bushes. You as the builder are responsible for the remediation. You know that yourself.
I’ll put it like this: You have collected 3 negative points and have to catch up again, that probably includes the greenery in your garden [emoji6]
I’m currently reading your lines with "it’s about principle and being a lackey, etc..." Maybe he thinks the same?
I think you don’t give each other much [emoji6] just kidding!
I see a power struggle here in which you both are involved.
I am of the opinion that even with not so much tact one can have a good and respectful neighborhood with a "difficult" person. And fighting for power is certainly the wrong path, leading to the wrong goal.
Basically it applies, whether partnership, circle of colleagues, friends: consider yourself somewhat less important than your counterpart and then it works. The smarter one or the one who can handle the problems of human diversity more confidently should find a means or way of communication to present both as “winners.”
Whether you meet on the terrace or not doesn’t matter. You want to be able to look the person next door in the eye and be able to rely on their help when you need it. Otherwise, you can just ignore each other [emoji6]
You can break off contact with everyone, only with the direct neighbor it’s bad!
I’m certainly not someone who handles such situations excellently, but in theory I’m good [emoji4]