So we have parquet almost everywhere; relatively high-quality oak parquet, oiled.
1. Use high-quality oil. There are huge differences. The oil we have (our house builder put it on the parquet for us; we only found out afterward that it is really great) is expensive but truly very high-quality. We recommended it to our carpenter, who made our kitchen and other built-ins, and he was totally amazed and has only been using it since then. Unfortunately, I’m sitting in the office today and can’t check the name directly. But it’s a two-component oil, and a good parquet installer usually also has a little machine to apply the oil. It looks like one of those old-fashioned polishing machines. I think it was the Rubio MonoCoat Oil Plus 2C Mix in natural/colorless. We have now been living in the house for over 3 years, and I wouldn’t know why I should re-oil...
2. I’m not a lightweight either and have parquet in my office combined with the Markus office chair from Ikea. I basically work from home every day (except today...), and after more than two years, I still can’t see any signs of wear on the parquet. In the basement, we have our second office with spruce flooring, and there’s a protective mat on it.
3. We also have parquet in the kitchen and would always do it like that again. Sure, you can see the occasional spot, but overall oak is very stain-friendly. The tannic acid contained in oak causes most stains to naturally fade after a while (even cat poop stains – we tested that...). When my husband once spilled a bottle of olive oil and the contents spread over the kitchen floor, you couldn’t see it after a few days. At that spot, the wood was simply oiled again *ahem*. Overall, we can live with a few signs of everyday life. In return, we have a floor that is simply cozy.
4. Cleaning: with parquet, less is more. We have a robot vacuum that runs through the ground floor every other day. We mop every few months, and that’s enough! Maybe people do it more often if they have small children, but it’s not dirty with us. For “wet cleaning” we have a Bissell, use VERY little cleaner with it, and it works very well.
Tiles: I would never use dark tiles in the entrance area; you can see every smudge on them. We actually like slate and originally wanted slate slabs, but after realizing how sensitive they are, decided on tiles with the look instead. We now have them on the bathroom floor. We like them, but I would never ever do that in the entrance area; you will clean yourself to death. We now have concrete-colored/beige tiles there. Sounds boring but it’s a neutral AND above all easy-to-clean tile. And that would be decisive for me for the entrance area, no matter what style it ends up being. Especially with almost two small children!
Not too many different floor coverings. We have light tiles in the entrance area and guest WC downstairs, otherwise oak parquet, and in the upstairs bathroom the dark tiles. In the basement, somewhat cheaper brushed spruce parquet. Also nice, we were just too stingy for oak there. Would do it the same way again. By the way, our parquet is not glued despite underfloor heating.
Overall, I would stay as neutral as possible with the floors and not create a style with them. Then in the future, when tastes change, you always have the option to furnish differently without having a floor that absolutely doesn’t fit. That was the motto for us overall for things that are fixed and thus stay longer: neutral, not dictating a style. This applies to floors, bathroom tiles, and windows.