I'm not talking about small groups or individual cases, the general average is meant. IG Metall increased by a good 10%, other sectors too. Whatever.
I know that and see it with my children, where income and extras are discussed, that sometimes I almost get scared. In this respect, I simply applied your statement about €900.-/sqm only to myself and my generation and realized that this alone should not stand like that.
Price increases never go back. Just accept it and please stop holding on to details, contexts, or whatever else. Plus, it's about construction prices, not interest rates.
A serious discussion without any context will always be pointless and unrealistic.
That general prices rise numerically has not only been the case since 1990, everything used to be cheaper anyway and the grass greener. Although I was already walking on earth back then, today I only rarely have the feeling that things "were better before"; financially definitely not, but that also did not have a comparable significance in our environment in daily life.
However, most builders always had to get their money for house construction from the bank, and not seeing the respective valid construction interest rates as a context shows the dreamy, distorted picture that apparently leads to frustration.
Otherwise, one could say today everything is so great because everyone has these high salaries and not only €1,000 like before.
I can understand that it is hard to accept this fact. The human psyche is not tuned to it. Also, one perceives it as unfair if someone built for about 25% less three years ago.
From this point of view, everyone would have to feel treated unfairly because there have always been different times and situations in which individual things were better/cheaper. Unfortunately, this negative thinking already seems to be socially acceptable.
"The myth of the golden times" from a study by the IWD describes the topic of building today and back then quite well.
...it's about construction prices, not interest rates.
No one denies increased (construction) prices, at least no one I know in freedom has.
When I built in 1990, I had almost 10% construction interest, in 2021 under 1%. Why should that not be a difference, then increased construction prices almost become a minor issue (warning: joke). When I was able to re-finance back then from nearly 10% to nearly 4%, I was happy. Not seeing this whole thing in connection (context) inevitably leads to pointless discussions.
Also, one perceives it as unfair if someone built for about 25% less three years ago.
I and quite a few others do not feel that way either.
Every era has its opportunities, advantages and disadvantages, that's how I experience life; otherwise, I would have to feel unfairness in me because I have repeatedly built under completely different conditions.
My net benefits have increased by exactly 10% since 2011, so I certainly do not count myself among the haute volée, and yet I do not feel like a loser. There have been good and bad times; complaining or whining is no option for me, but factual criticism is.
A single-family home, if self-used, is not an investment either, but rather a luxury. In this respect, it is also rather pointless to mourn old prices of luxury goods.
That is a flat, by no means universally valid statement, which can also be true for you personally.
For us, it even means a high value beyond the financial aspect, namely living self-determined in our own house. Over the years, I have experienced various forms of living and now again in our own house I feel it is the optimal form for us; thus, it represents an indescribably high value for us, for which we were also willing to pay more money or forego things in other areas and do not calculate whether it pays off numerically.
Thus, it is the best investment of all for us, namely the one in our current life and especially our well-being.
From my point of view, I see unnecessary luxury every day on the street, in overcrowded children's rooms, garages, restaurants, holiday resorts, and so on, or last Saturday in the crowded shopping mall where I wondered why they were all here with their supposedly empty wallets.
As already mentioned elsewhere: the money is there, only the question of prioritization has changed.