So it only really makes sense if the property is in my possession before I build, so debt-free?
But until then I will have saved almost no liquid equity and would have to finance the entire house, but would a bank approve that?
if you have fully financed the land for building the house, you have great equity - the land. All banks will accept that. If instead of financing the land now you would save the same amount, your equity at the start of the construction project would also go into the land later (because it is the first major expense).
If the land is a bargain in terms of price/performance, you definitely want to build there (or you are sure it could even appreciate in value), then buy the land and finance it over very few years (because building the house only after financing, reasons have been mentioned). Keep in mind that you still have to pay rent, and even with a 1000€/month rate you only get "just" 12,000€/year together. So if you want to finance 40,000€, you won’t get away with less than about 4 years this way. It’s probably better if you just keep saving the money.