Thanks for the (not) so nice story. Unfortunately, these are the cases where an alleged dream financing that doesn't fit from the start falls apart. Similar with us, my wife becomes unemployed with severance pay (we already know that now).
Well - our financing hasn't collapsed. We deliberately chose it so that in the worst case (no income at all from my wife) I can (with a heavy heart) cover the financing myself. However, purchasing a (new) used car at the moment would only be possible with significant restrictions (except for giving up vacations).
However - if I were to lose my job, we would have to sell, as with my wife's income (even at the originally planned income) the installment + other costs could not be permanently covered. This was clear to us from the start, as my wife wouldn't earn accordingly working full-time herself (that's just how it is in retail).
I just wanted to point out here: the unexpected often happens. If you calculate some things too nicely, sooner or later you will fall flat on your face.
Even with cool planning, unforeseen things can happen.
I'm glad we didn't put up a 480k house.
Me too.