One can assume that has considered his very personal "benefit" and tailored it to his own needs rather than following a prescribed mainstream. Fortunately, people are different, so difference shouldn’t be surprising, but rather the absence of difference. Therefore, I can be happy that HE likes his kitchen; that alone is important! The true aesthete is especially free (in spirit) and likes all that is beautiful, consequently also the beauty of words and the fine dealings with other people and tastes! The self-proclaimed aesthete, who perceives petty norms and social constraints as universally valid beauty or even aesthetics, often merely follows expensive fashion phenomena or prescribed trends he clings to because he lacks the freedom to follow his very own form of aesthetics. A person like , who feels comfortable in his own kitchen or elsewhere in life, has done EVERYTHING right for himself! Trying to deny someone this satisfaction or joy, in my opinion, rather indicates one’s own dissatisfaction or some envy of this satisfaction. Maybe our “aesthete” here will once post his own pictures of house, kitchen, own hairstyle, etc. (this courage will probably be lacking); at the latest then one could recognize from the reactions that aesthetics, like art, lies mostly in the eye of the beholder, and his idea of aesthetics might be laughed at by other people.
so much blah blah without substance You really like to hear yourself talk, don’t you? Your text is a bit funny in that it is supposed to target me, but does not criticize my criticism at all, instead it fabricates flowery words for arbitrarily invented counters and at the same time does not even remotely characterize me. But let it be, I guess your intention. But rest assured, I wholeheartedly wish Peter well with his obviously stylish kitchen and am happy for him that he likes it. You don’t need to keep posing as the protective big brother in front of him.