People with a lot of money and people do not think in "either-or," but in "both-and."
People who do not attach too much importance to money and possessions do that, by the way, too.
Both enjoy the same form of freedom in completely different ways.
Wise words and surely true. But those who think and live this way do not, as a rule, mention the countertop from the other side of the world with the genuine fossil impressions for 50k. They have it because they find it
meaningful for themselves – or not.
I mentioned the vegetable garden because I would cultivate it myself and it gives me meaning in several ways: gardening, possibly old varieties that I cannot buy, and ultimately products for cooking, the central activity for which the kitchen exists (instead of a showroom). Sure, in the end I spend the same amount of money, but for a different effect.
Or in short: Those who find meaning in spending money only by showing off their purchases and depending on the reactions of their environment ("oh, how great your kitchen is, I’m so jealous") have taken an unhealthy path in their development (or been taken down one).
That does not mean that the same money couldn’t be spent meaningfully in another way that is healthier.