It can be assumed that has considered his very personal "benefit" and oriented it towards his own needs instead of following the prescribed mainstream. Fortunately, people are different, which is why diversity should not be surprising but rather the absence of diversity. Thus, I can be glad that HE likes his kitchen; that alone is important! The true aesthete is especially free (in mind) and likes all things beautiful, consequently also the beauty of words and the subtle interaction with other people and tastes!
The self-proclaimed aesthete, who perceives petty norms and social constraints as generally valid beauty or even aesthetics, often merely follows expensive fashion phenomena or prescribed trends to which he clings because he lacks the freedom to follow his very own form of aesthetics.
A person like , who feels comfortable in his own kitchen or elsewhere in life, has done EVERYTHING right for himself!
To now want to deny someone this satisfaction or joy rather indicates, in my opinion, one’s own dissatisfaction or some envy of this satisfaction.
Perhaps our "aesthete" here will post his own pictures of house, kitchen, own hairstyle, etc. (this courage will probably be lacking); at the latest then one could recognize from the reactions that aesthetics, like art, lie predominantly in the eye of the beholder and his idea of aesthetics might be ridiculed by other people.