I think, on the one hand, as already mentioned, that the kitchen is much more present in today’s typical open floor plans. On the other hand, perhaps because many think, as also already noted, many think “it has to last 20 years” and be pleasing (!). And in the end, as also already mentioned, this is a subject area that is certainly not mass-representative. It’s just a kitchen topic.
Regardless of that, I wonder why one keeps reading here that “woman” chooses, uses, and cleans the kitchen. Here with us, it’s the opposite; my better half has not once stood at the stove since I discovered cooking for myself (about 5 years ago). In fact, we even had the kitchen built according to my requirements in terms of countertop height and workflows. It’s a hobby for me, and it has to work and be pleasing. Then it can also cost something.