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2019-08-12 08:28:24
- #1
So first of all, you have my sympathy. This all sounds really bad. On the one hand your emotions, on the other hand the legal aspect. We only know a small part now, and only from you. That will probably all be true, but the law or the fraud is in the details, and you have to look at things objectively. We can’t do that here. I don’t know if you can still look at everything objectively.
Remember this thread and post it if necessary in other inquiries where things are tight. Anyway. Mentally it’s still going downhill, and that is fatal. Not just for the original poster, but there is still a family behind it!
I wrote down some keywords for myself... Regarding the excavation: that is completely normal, although a lot also means a lot of overhead costs. The removal of the excavation is very likely not contractually fixed (that would be extremely rare), so it always has to be paid by the builder. Especially in the special position basement. A building surveyor will notice such things if you hire him before the contract is signed. Also adding static special features like here massive walls instead of the cheap variant timber frame on the upper floor (we also have the cheap version, that’s about the term “cheap”). Such things can happen, and often this 5- or 10% buffer is used for exactly these things. That’s what the buffer is for. €5000 is completely proportional here now too. Boundary stone: even a boundary stone or a wall or whatever can sometimes be damaged by the earthworks contractor. These are all things that can happen during house construction. The 10 cm basement height or looking outside is also annoying, but there is always plan B in house construction. What do you think how someone who has to make a decision about guilt reacts when he hears about a damaged boundary stone or an error of 10 cm in a house height of 9 meters? Or with a building sum of over €450,000, what are €5000? The €17,000 are excavation, so they don’t even belong to that. These are my points now: neutral and without judgment. And now think about your anger.
These thoughts won’t get you any further. Focus on your healthy family and reread the post by #63. If you get stuck here in something you can’t change (for example, I don’t see any fraud, you can refer to the deception paragraph all you want, but I’m not an expert), then your family life suffers, not just you alone. That may work for a year or two, but at some point, people don’t want to hear or live the tune of revenge anymore. I believe you are moving emotionally in the wrong direction, which affects the rest of your life.
Remember this thread and post it if necessary in other inquiries where things are tight. Anyway. Mentally it’s still going downhill, and that is fatal. Not just for the original poster, but there is still a family behind it!
I wrote down some keywords for myself... Regarding the excavation: that is completely normal, although a lot also means a lot of overhead costs. The removal of the excavation is very likely not contractually fixed (that would be extremely rare), so it always has to be paid by the builder. Especially in the special position basement. A building surveyor will notice such things if you hire him before the contract is signed. Also adding static special features like here massive walls instead of the cheap variant timber frame on the upper floor (we also have the cheap version, that’s about the term “cheap”). Such things can happen, and often this 5- or 10% buffer is used for exactly these things. That’s what the buffer is for. €5000 is completely proportional here now too. Boundary stone: even a boundary stone or a wall or whatever can sometimes be damaged by the earthworks contractor. These are all things that can happen during house construction. The 10 cm basement height or looking outside is also annoying, but there is always plan B in house construction. What do you think how someone who has to make a decision about guilt reacts when he hears about a damaged boundary stone or an error of 10 cm in a house height of 9 meters? Or with a building sum of over €450,000, what are €5000? The €17,000 are excavation, so they don’t even belong to that. These are my points now: neutral and without judgment. And now think about your anger.
I see it differently, I don’t want that guy to get away with it. What kind of justice is that? He pockets the money and we’re the fools? Not with me!
My top priority is to get my money back and put an end to this man’s business.
These thoughts won’t get you any further. Focus on your healthy family and reread the post by #63. If you get stuck here in something you can’t change (for example, I don’t see any fraud, you can refer to the deception paragraph all you want, but I’m not an expert), then your family life suffers, not just you alone. That may work for a year or two, but at some point, people don’t want to hear or live the tune of revenge anymore. I believe you are moving emotionally in the wrong direction, which affects the rest of your life.