Because I really thought that after a year of shared "ordeal" one could trust each other. However, I told him that I would not pay it like that and also wrote today that I am canceling the order.
Do you know what is also really great. When those real estate pros pretend to be construction companies and then explain that they want to do you a favor and buy the shell construction along with the property from you.
At a reasonable price, I would consider it. Then you come to an agreement with the bank, maybe still have some debts, and recover as a family a bit from all the stress. Or how much longer do you want to keep doing this? Now you are already in a dispute with the second company.
I exclude this option. Somehow we have to manage to finish building this house. If necessary, at least half of the house first. Just withdrawing from the loan would cost us about €38,000. Never!!!