I really don't understand how someone can put themselves in a victim role like that. Do you want a home of your own or not? You have good conditions and a goal. You need to change your attitude if you want to be happy. Happiness doesn't just fall into your lap, just like it doesn't for many other people. I also can't afford a home within an 80 km radius. That's how it is. I compete with millionaires and billionaires. That won't change here either. So the four of us live frugally and save half of our 5000 net income (for all four) and all special payments. Four years ago, we inherited 50% of a small junk property in the middle of nowhere 50 km from Stuttgart from my husband's grandmother. 160 sqm with a renovation status from the 70s. We are renovating it little by little together with his brother. Friends bought a holiday home in Italy to own a bit of concrete.