Defensive offer, or have house prices become so expensive?

  • Erstellt am 2022-01-06 14:07:54

altoderneu

2022-02-16 10:41:57
  • #1

Just because you can't afford an S-Class doesn't mean cars in general are too expensive?

Immoscout (Listing No. 130189725)
"3-unit house in Eißendorf!
Eißendorf, Hamburg
€749,000 purchase price
178 m² living space
6 rooms
653 m² land"

--> half the amount of money you mentioned is enough in the Hamburg area for more than "just" a single-family house ...
 

barfly666

2022-02-16 18:34:19
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What a wimp society we have become! About 140 years ago, 11ant would have counted 25 steps to the left, 25 steps to the right and then BAM ….. I think Katja is a little bit resistant to advice, so it would be wasted time for Pagoni … As I said, when the slightly senile homeowner eventually falls for his caregiver and appoints her as the main heir, bet there will be complaints then too? Already experienced everything (as a wealth manager in the broadest sense) and it’s not so rare whether grandchildren drag their grandma to the notary to be the sole heirs (but then push grandma into a nursing home) or a caregiver suddenly with power of attorney on the account … all already happened ….
 

tomtom79

2022-02-19 19:06:58
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I believe someone from n-tv is reading along here. Just found a report that inheritance is becoming more and more expensive. Unfortunately very short. The inherited parental home is becoming more and more expensive
 

rick2018

2022-02-19 19:12:19
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Well, you really can't call that a report. But it hits exactly the topic. Living elsewhere and wanting to keep the parental home (which I can understand). Then tax is incurred.
 

pagoni2020

2022-02-28 10:50:29
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Hello Katja, from my side a final contribution to this, I would have preferred to write this to you personally, which is not possible:

I actually believe you that you only "followed" me because you wanted to address me directly later!
The fact that shortly before that you accused me of a witch hunt and then "followed" me as the supposedly hunted one, in itself carried a piece of situational comedy for me. I was particularly upset about your in my opinion inappropriate choice of words.
Ultimately, that was exactly what it was about:

Quote: “No, it was about us being too poor to keep the parental home in the event of inheritance as a result of the real estate bubble.”
In your comparatively rather casual case, claiming the term "poverty" for yourself I found somewhat lacking in appreciation for people who actually have to or had to experience poverty.
That one does not rejoice at a tax back payment, I do understand though.

Quote: “....a kind of expropriation.... forced to sell,” "in truth however loses his [I]home, it doesn't matter at all..."[/I]
Here too, I was disturbed by the inflationary use of such words in your comparatively luxurious position, where in the end it is "only" about money and not about expropriation or loss of home.
Just look at TV and see what expropriation, loss of home/parental home actually means and where such wording is appropriate and fitting and where it is not. For me, such wording would almost be forbidden, because I am still aware of how cushioned we have lived so far compared to most other people.
I understood your "problem" purely factually, but not at all the drastic choice of words.

This choice of words probably triggered me especially because my parental home came from displaced persons who had actually experienced expropriation as well as loss of parental home and family, how much they would have liked to have avoided that through a tax payment; that has affected us all deeply.
I thought of "Jana from Kassel," who noticeably and visibly felt a kind of injustice and seemed affected, but her comparison to her own situation was completely off.

Luckily, we do not have such stereotypical divisive feelings between people from different (federal) states, otherwise my wife would not be married to me nor would we have moved here or even been able to live abroad. We do not care at all about the name of the (federal) state, so far we have felt comfortable everywhere.

Am I very unhappy?
Basically no, but whenever I encounter xenophobic things, I am sad in that moment and also ashamed, for example, if my visitor from the "West" or my son living here has to read or hear such things. That is why I am already bothered by such careless harmful wording and I would be very glad if we could finally get that out of our heads.

Why should it become hard "here" for us ... and what does this "here" mean or what is different than elsewhere that could make it harder?
If that were actually the case, it would rather be embarrassing for the "here".
Ultimately, it is such that we would also change things if they no longer fit us, because in the end it is just a house, we define the term "home" differently.
But we like living in the new house "here" and it is solely up to us which people we surround ourselves with; this is no different here in Saxony than anywhere else, because there is no SUCH Saxon or SUCH Arab, THE woman or THE teacher, even if some like to believe that for simplicity's sake.
, as a person and human being I absolutely did not want to defame you, how could I, where I do not even know you. If that impression was created, I would be sorry!
 

K a t j a

2022-02-28 19:12:18
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It still doesn’t work for me either. I just tried again.


That is the problem of the written word. With the appropriate emphasis, this misunderstanding probably would not have arisen. The expression was meant to highlight the discrepancy between supposed "assets" and the lack of liquidity.


That’s funny, because in fact my family was expropriated by the GDR regime. So I know quite well what that means. But it shows once again how presumptuous you are to judge others without knowing anything about them.


see above.


I lived in Hamburg for 3 years of my life. Since then, I know what the "here" at least for me in Saxony (cannot speak for others) means. Explaining this would probably only cause another wave of outrage.


That is so typical and exactly the problem I mean. Superficiality, not standing by one’s word and in the end letting oneself be celebrated as a peacemaker, although one constantly spread lies. Should I look for the passages again? Or have they perhaps already been deleted?

Yes, after a few days and the latest horror news from other countries, all of this seems unimportant. Same for me. I read that you are leaving the forum anyway. So bye bye.
 
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