Small update:
The offer for soil replacement has arrived and was better than expected. Even another civil engineer said (thanks again to ) that he couldn’t really do it cheaper or faster. Since a compaction report from an independent lab would have been required for subcontracting, we have now commissioned the general contractor with the replacement.
One question about the excavation: I don’t want to remove the excavation for now. Is it then advisable to separate it somehow? Because the top layer is topsoil and underneath there is rather humic sand? Can you actually do anything with humic sand? There is always a risk of settling, but I think as a layer under the topsoil, where there is lawn (so no paving, terraces or other structures), it doesn’t matter, right?
After the demolition, it turned out that the plot is on average lower than the street land and the neighboring plots (the previous owner had concreted over more than half of the plot), so the excavation material can also be used well there, right?