Depression after notarized contract - experiences

  • Erstellt am 2021-09-02 08:39:37

nordanney

2021-09-06 19:03:37
  • #1
Build a house. But you are only looking for confirmation to back out of the purchase. Also, you are afraid of change.
 

SumsumBiene

2021-09-06 19:09:23
  • #2


Then just do it. You get rid of the feeling and also make someone else very happy with your decision. But you shouldn’t cry over the decision afterwards, no matter what happens. There is only tomorrow, not yesterday.
 

Oetti

2021-09-06 19:31:47
  • #3
I would build the house and see it as a transitional object. Better the blind in bed than the deaf on the roof, or however the saying goes. Here you can actively shape something; the rest depends on too many factors you have no influence over.
 

Tarnari

2021-09-06 19:39:06
  • #4
Let it be or jump over your shadow.
It does not make you happy. You want to stay with your parents, in your familiar environment. If you cannot let go, then let it be.
The alternative is, you realize that everything is only temporary and nothing disappears forever.

The gut is the best advisor. Listen to it.
And include your family.
 

SumsumBiene

2021-09-06 19:39:30
  • #5


.... I would take the sparrow in the hand..
 

Scout

2021-09-06 19:53:44
  • #6
Notary fees, land registry and property transfer tax? Prepayment penalty for the bank (roughly 10% of the loan amount) and possibly compensation for the seller? Only 8000? Lucky you! I would have expected rather >= 50,000…
 
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