Depression after notarized contract - experiences

Only negative thoughts. I told my parents about it yesterday, my father feels like I'm just on the hunt. If I have something in my sights, I don't pull the trigger, and he expressed concerns that if I were to cancel, I might still want the house....

hm, how is it that your father's suspicion is also in every fourth post here) Then we probably aren't doing so badly, that you are afraid of change and need therapeutic help - not just for buying the house.

Does it have to be the last chance if I don't take it?

No. But what reasons should there be for the next change if your current life offers 100% satisfaction. So you will certainly talk everything down again in the next decision and not seize the opportunity.

On the other hand, I think to myself. Yes, it can happen, it would be bitter, but there are many opportunities in life. Does it have to be the last chance if I don’t take it?

Don’t always see things in black and white. Opportunities come and go in life again and again. And why do you always have to make the most out of everything? Even if the purchase price might be a bit too high... so what? Try living in the house first. I mean... this is all very abstract right now, since everything will only be finished at the end of 2022. Even if the comparison is silly, but I personally always feel uneasy with advance payment.

That is all true... what is not true is that a general ban on single-family homes is part of the Green Party's platform.

It does not have to be banned; simply a few more requirements that make building a single-family home impossible due to cost intensity.

... and would cost you dearly in a possible divorce (yeah yeah, that only happens to others anyway..)

Prenuptial agreement? ..... ...... ...... ..... ...... ...... ...... ....... ........

Parallel planes do not intersect N.I.E.. The OP needs help in the psychotherapeutic field because his problem lies there. Any advice on factual levels - no matter whether as a pill, ointment, cream, or syrup - is worth 0.0 there. However, the discussion here repeatedly slides back into the factual level. I'm out of here then.

The discussion will surely also be read by others who I suspect benefit from the factual level. I, for example, often read discussions that I did not start/have not started myself but that nevertheless help me enormously. :)

It is so pointless. From the very first post, the OP just wants to hear that stepping back is not a big deal. He has long since made up his mind, the thread has become a farce. Almost all of you mean well, but no one will reach him...