Depression after notarized contract - experiences

Honestly, what’s this sh** supposed to be? Do you think this helps the OP or are you just trolling? Stuff like this is really starting to annoy me. What does he gain from knowing the prices in Lower Saxony?

You don’t even know if the OP is trolling you. After 40 pages, we’re back at the beginning.

235k for 140 m2 new build? Haha! How do you come up with something like that?

Yes, it is very realistic, 175k for the semi-detached house, 25k for the half property, 35k additional building costs with terrace etc. A lot of cash like that, but yes

Would it cost him dearly?

She gives up her own career to take care of his children, pays high taxes on her already lower income due to the care work performed for him so that he has a higher net income (in his separate account...), will hardly have any opportunity to establish herself professionally after the divorce (after all, she will have been out of work for years due to childcare responsibilities and will presumably still have to take care of his children "full-time" after the divorce), hardly builds up her own pension, so she will end up in old-age poverty – and you think it will cost him dearly? I don't think so.

I would like to give this post much more than just a like. One can only applaud this analysis.

Oh people, please don’t form any judgments about life situations you ultimately don’t know, but only think you understand based on incomplete forum posts. I know what you mean. Classic role distribution, poor woman, etc. If that’s the case, touché. But maybe not. My wife and I have been living in a similar situation for years. But reversed. She brings in the money. I barely contribute half. We have everything only because of her income. Former condo, vacations, now the house… I contribute all I can. But without her, none of this would ever work. Don’t get me wrong, but to me it sounds like you’re just reducing it to classic role distribution. Yet you actually know nothing. Just a few statements in a forum.

according to the HOUSE BANK the house has a value of 1 million at a sale price of 790,000 euros
However, their calculations do not distinguish between detached and terraced houses

Are they trying to fool me or deliberately calm me down?
257m2 plot, living area 121m2, cellar excluded but the house
Somehow the interest has to come from somewhere, the good one. What do you think about the financing? Compared to other threads total harakiri suicide

If the house is supposedly worth 1 million according to the bank, then the purchase price would more likely be around 1.2 - 1.3 million!? To me that doesn't quite add up or are you buying within the family? No one just gives away 400-500k like that.

If the house is supposed to be worth 1 million according to the bank, then the purchase price would probably be around 1.2 - 1.3 million!? It doesn’t really add up for me, or are you buying within the family? Nobody just gives away 400-500k.

Yes, it doesn't add up, but that's what the bank says. I don't understand it myself.