Depression after notarized contract - experiences

We worry so much about money that we manage to make ourselves feel bad, even though we belong to the top x-tenths per mille of the world population. Whoever realizes this and questions their wishes and demands and recognizes their position in the hamster wheel can laugh out loud once and make a decision to either get out or keep running. The fright is not an existential threat but the collapse of a self-chosen house of cards made up of wishes, comparisons, and expectations multiplied by the feeling of social pressure from the environment. We don’t need all that stuff. We just want it. Folks, it’s ONLY money. Treat each other well, stay healthy, give each other a smile (yes, even to the “stupid” neighbor), and enjoy what is there instead of forgetting to enjoy because of the fear of losing it.

Then first clarify whether and how you can get out of this situation. I already wrote this several posts ago and it was also said by others. In the best case, the seller lets you off the hook because the place will be snatched out of his hands again soon. In the worst case, you have to have the house completed and can only sell it afterwards. Then the whole affair will stick to you for another 1.5 years.

I think the seller lets him off because he makes more money with resale + cancellation fees (or whatever the OP has to pay)... The OP could also already present a potential buyer...

We worry so much about money that we manage to make ourselves feel bad, even though we belong to the top x-tenths of a percent of the world population. Whoever realizes this and questions their wishes and demands and recognizes their position in the hamster wheel can have a loud laugh and make a decision to get out or keep running. The horror is not an existential threat, but the collapse of a self-chosen house of cards made of wishes, comparisons, and expectations multiplied by the feeling of social pressure from the environment. We don’t need all that stuff. We just want it. People, it’s JUST money. Treat each other well, stay healthy, give each other a smile (yes, even to the “stupid” neighbor), and enjoy what is there instead of forgetting to enjoy because of the fear of losing it.

Amen, sister. Your post contains many maxims that I also try to live by.

We worry so much about money, ... People, it's ONLY money. ...

But: (Absolutely) nothing goes without cash ...

But: (Absolutely) nothing happens without money ...

We are not starving here at all. So there is enough "money" and things can "happen." I prefer to be surrounded by favorite people in simple circumstances rather than with constantly subtly dissatisfied people in a dream castle. Anyone who thinks the same can set their priorities accordingly and doesn’t need much more.

We are not starving here. So there is enough "dough" and "action" is possible. I prefer to be surrounded by favorite people in simple circumstances than with constantly latently dissatisfied people in a dream castle. Anyone who thinks the same can set their priorities accordingly and doesn't need much more.

You are right... just foolish if you have neither :p :D :D