Selling new construction after receiving funding / Wohnriester - possible?

2022-04-25 15:24:54

By the way, when you break words down like that, you often notice something else. Here, for example, the kinship to [Kompromittieren]! Maybe a reason why some people always find compromises bad. There are even modern coaches who say, don’t look for a compromise, but for consensus! But that leads too far now.

2022-04-25 17:36:06

And if, for example, you feel disturbed, although the neighbor is not playing loud music, whose problem is it?

Katis! BECAUSE it is HER problem, consideration from the OTHER party would be appropriate. What else?

I don’t understand the whole approach of “not legally prohibited,” sorry. If everyone does whatever they want as long as it’s not legally prohibited, the community falls apart. That’s a no-brainer. And because it’s a no-brainer, the legislator doesn’t see the point in regulating THAT as well. Consideration is a matter of manners, not law.

I don’t even understand the idea of compromise. I wouldn’t even think of playing music without headphones in a garden adjacent to neighbor’s gardens if I’m not hosting a party. Why? Because it’s a no-brainer that this music disturbs others. You just don’t do it! That I have to explain this is incomprehensible to me.

Also the example with the fence: If you have agreed and something is there, that’s settled. Music keeps being turned on and off. That’s not even a lame comparison, it’s legless.

I don’t understand the sympathy for such neighbors.

2022-04-25 18:47:09

Katis! BECAUSE it is HER problem, consideration from the OTHER party would be appropriate. What else? I don’t understand the whole approach with “not legally prohibited,” sorry. If everyone does whatever they want as long as it is not legally prohibited, the community falls apart. That is a no-brainer. And because that is a no-brainer, the legislator does not see any reason to regulate THAT as well. Consideration is polite, not legal. I don’t even understand the idea of compromise. I wouldn’t even think of playing music without headphones in a garden with adjoining neighbor gardens if I’m not hosting a party. Why? Because it’s a no-brainer that this music affects others too. You simply don’t do that! It’s incomprehensible to me that this has to be explained. Also the example with the fence: If one has agreed and something is built, that’s settled. Music switches on and off again and again. That’s not even a lame comparison, it’s legless. I don’t understand the empathy for such neighbors.

As I said, different worlds and I also grew up somewhere else. When music was played in Poland, the neighbor came to listen or brought a beer and chatted at the garden fence. In Germany, people first check the time and then shake their heads. Different countries, different customs :) People mostly assume the negative. It’s all a matter of mindset. But that will probably be hard to understand here. So let’s get back to the actual topic :) The heading is: "Selling new construction after receiving funding / Wohnriester - possible?"

2022-04-25 19:27:31

Consideration would be appropriate. Owning your own house does not mean you don't have to be considerate. We also listen to music in the garden but quietly. I don't force my neighbors to like my music taste and if I'm not on the terrace but still want to listen to music, I take my small portable speaker with me. None of my neighbors hear my music and they don't need to. If in Poland it doesn't matter when everyone listens to loud music, then that's how it is. If it bothers your neighbors, then you have to be considerate. This is also not comparable to a fence at all. I also find my neighbor's fence ugly. I cannot change the fence but I can change my garden. So I planted and placed decorations in front of it. I cannot escape music or other noise and that's where consideration starts.

2022-04-25 19:27:47

I just believe that the dose makes the poison here. Live and let live - quite simple.

I still have quite a bit of bodywork to do on the car and I'm already considering whether it would be a good idea to buy a welding machine. But somehow I feel guilty towards my townhouse neighbors. On the other hand: it would only be now and then and not every day forever.

But I'm also way too nice. I always worry about not imposing anything unpleasant on others. Other people probably just do it and are much freer. I think something in between would be ideal.

2022-04-25 19:58:11

Clearly, the dose makes the poison. The annoying thing is that one neighbor only plays loud music in the garden on Mondays. Another neighbor only works on his car on Tuesdays. Yet another neighbor only renovates his house daily in the evening and on weekends… I have been listening for 6 years now to how a different neighbor each time renovates his house on his own. Eventually, it just becomes annoying. Around last autumn, a house and garden were renovated three houses down. When that was finished, another neighbor bought a house. He has been building and hammering since September. We live in an established residential area. It's just annoying but can't be changed. If now everyone also turns up their favorite music in the garden, then I'll move to Kati. Because culturally, music is played there in a pitch that rather hurts our ears.

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