Selling new construction after receiving funding / Wohnriester - possible?

Sorry, but anyone who can’t put sand into a sandbox because of music, breaks down in tears and practically “ruins” their child’s birthday is not just “a bit sensitive” but has a deep problem – but of course you don’t want to hear that.

Luckily, we apparently have enough tough guys like you here who always have everything perfectly under control. Rarely have I read such arrogantly presumptuous nonsense....... You surely know that those who wag the lecturing finger usually are or have the biggest problem. You feel something and immediately all kinds of categories are opened, just as you know how: left-right, black-white, normal-psychologically conspicuous :D. I really laugh myself silly at all the diagnoses I read here. By the way, if you were actually looking for another house and changing things in your private life as well, that doesn’t necessarily have to be bad, it can just as well be an enrichment and become one. Of course, there are houses and locations that don’t have such things, that would absolutely bother me often as well and it would be about the palpable lack of consideration or being at the mercy of a stranger’s whims. And....... of course NOT everyone can do whatever they want on their property but the strange understanding of freedom can currently be experienced in our society in some places. I do what I want. Living consideration as gladly given kindness is partly even ridiculed here. What harm do I do by shaping my music so that a neighbor doesn’t feel disturbed? I am sure he is very picky about his things (fence, car etc.). What you described and thus you I find completely “normal”. If it should be strange that one doesn’t constantly have the neighbor’s music moods in one’s ear then I am gladly strange. I also wonder that people spend hours in malls, constantly bombarding themselves with headphones etc. Your house is not your dream house because of the façade or the beautiful windows, but because you really feel damn comfortable in and around it. With usual house builders you will find little understanding for a sale, but I would definitely (yet only AFTER a serious and clear conversation) think about a change. You are young, where is the problem to change something like that if you feel that uncomfortable? People often endure such things instead... I have often changed it and in retrospect it was good, even if not always easy! Maybe the serious search and dealing with your move already gives you some breathing room. I definitely wouldn’t endure this in the long run!!! Complaining, arguing, attacking, shouting... is not everyone’s thing, mine neither.

Hello kati, maybe you can make an agreement with your neighbor. Whenever you raise a flag, banner, or a specific cloth visible to him, he can turn up his music as much as he wants, because, for example, you won’t be at home in the next few hours or don’t plan to go out anyway.

I had already mentioned elsewhere that I had a similar agreement with my former (apartment) neighbor.
At that time, I was the ‘bad guy’ with my subwoofer and 5.1 system. We agreed that she would please put a note on her door if she was out of the house. Then I would know.

Even at the risk of going over the same thing again: What speaks against a professional soundproof fence? If I read correctly, you only have a lousy wooden fence. A wooden fence is no good.

Why not at least a very heavy wall and in front of it an extra layer of very dense shrubs? Have you sought professional advice? What would a metallic sound barrier like those on highways or railway lines cost in the extreme case?

On the other hand: Is there a noise level that you could even accept? Or is even just knowing that music is playing enough?

Good morning

go outside, fill the sandbox and celebrate the birthday outside with lots of laughter and children screaming. Overpower your neighbor.
It's a birthday, it should be nice and you need positive vibes outside.

I like the idea of agreed quiet times and loud times. My music is actually no music for many, it sounds terrible when quiet. I only listen when it doesn't bother anyone and then I enjoy it loudly.
If it's too quiet, your neighbor won't hear anything at work either.

Even at the risk of going over the same thing again:
What speaks against a professional soundproof fence? If I read correctly, you only have a shabby wooden fence. A wooden fence is useless.

That would also be my suggestion. First talk to the neighbor again, then soundproofing elements, and then sale. Such a fence can (actually) not be much more expensive than the prepayment penalty.

Even at the risk of going over the same thing again:
What speaks against a professional soundproof fence? If I read correctly, you only have a lousy wooden fence. A wooden fence is no good.

Why not at least a very heavy wall and in front of it an extra layer of very dense shrubs? Have you sought professional advice?
What would such a metallic soundproof barrier like those on highways or railway lines cost in an extreme case?

On the other hand: Would there be a noise level that you could even accept? Or is just knowing that music is playing enough?

But it has to suppress 100% of the music. As soon as a little beep comes, it gets difficult, because it is, as you can read, now very deeply rooted in Kathi. The question would be, what happens if the same thing happens in the new house, for example, due to village music, youth who often hang out in the forest and play music? Do you move so often until you are financially ruined or do you tackle the problem at its source?