Selling new construction after receiving funding / Wohnriester - possible?

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Acof1978

2021-08-04 10:45:07
  • #1


But you yourself say that music already annoys you/produces feelings of hatred which the neighbor actually plays quietly. And the average person wouldn’t be bothered by that. And that was the starting point for me. If the neighbor is already considerate and plays music quietly in the garden, but you develop feelings of hatred, then it either has to be deeply rooted or have another cause. Because now demanding from the neighbors not to play any music in the garden at all, not even quietly, would in my view go too far. I’m not a therapist, I/we can only infer from what you tell us.
 

kati1337

2021-08-04 10:58:07
  • #2

I am not demanding anything from the neighbor at all.
In my initial thread, it doesn’t even mention why we want to move. It only contains questions about what to consider when selling a new build. All the stuff with the neighbor arose only from the dynamics of the forum, as some remembered that I had written something about it in ANOTHER thread. Nobody is demanding anything from the neighbor. I just want to get away from here. Period.
 

jonhebbe

2021-08-04 11:19:41
  • #3

I think no one here can help you anymore – no one seems to have an answer or experience regarding the original question, and you appear to have already decided that you want to sell the new build – so this is going around in circles.
 

Tamstar

2021-08-04 11:38:33
  • #4




I’ll quote as an example and because these were the most recent posts of this kind.

How many times does Kathi have to say that it’s only music that triggers her? How many times does she have to say that she has already been in therapy and how many times does she have to say that what the neighbor is doing is objectively not wrong?

You probably never had such problems, I assume, otherwise you wouldn’t harp on it so much.

Kathi, I can understand you very well.
For me, it’s more on the pathological side of misophonia, but that doesn’t change the fact that it is restricting. That you don’t go outside because you know the disturbing noises could be or will be there. That you can hear nothing but those noises then. That you do certain things already with fear or simply don’t do them at all (for me, for example, it’s taking the train, cinema, theatre, museum, swimming pool, etc.). When it happens even in your home environment, even in the house that you planned and built as a retreat, that is terrible, because… where else would you go then? I’m very sorry that it has affected you so unhappily.

Regarding funding, I found the following in the BAFA guideline:
"The subsidized system must be operated appropriately for at least seven years. An appropriate operation is assumed when the subsidized systems are used according to their intended purpose. In the event of the sale of the system, the purchaser must be informed of this obligation."
Layman’s understanding: Point this out in the notary contract and you’re safe.

I could totally understand if you sell again. The house is not your house, not your “domain,” but determined by others. All the incomprehension from forum members or all the “You have to expect that you are not alone in the world” doesn’t change that.
 

Tamstar

2021-08-04 11:57:49
  • #5
And sorry for the h in the name... o_O
 

haydee

2021-08-04 12:15:46
  • #6
since this is not the first discussion on the topic, I have had the problem too and I have also already written about it. Since the rhythm, the monotonous background noise cannot apparently be filtered out, who guarantees that it won't also happen with other noises that create a rhythm? In my parents' street, someone actually moved away. He had a similar problem with tractors. Edge of town location and fields all around.
 

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