Selling new construction after receiving funding / Wohnriester - possible?

Yes, I understand, everyone can do as they please. I just mean, I have painstakingly learned over the years not to always express myself wishy-washy but to say concretely "I want" instead of "could one please," and I'm also a bit proud of that, so now I live it out to the fullest. ME ME ME. :p

That now goes against my intended meaning. Maybe I am also expressing myself unclearly. Especially in a Gorm, perhaps not too much should be read into it.

We are going in circles. I never claimed that the problem wasn't with me. I acknowledge that, and by now I don't care at all about the question of blame. The situation that every time I open my patio door I hear country music is permanently unbearable for me. There are only 2 possibilities: he stops it or I have to leave here. I have already asked for advice here (in the first post) regarding alternative 2. I think the 30 pages about my neighbor are enough now.

Very limited choice of alternatives. There will definitely be more. Treatment/therapy, talks with specialists would be others.

But you are right. We are going in circles.

If you are with the Building Owners Protection Association or in the Building Owners Club, these questions might possibly be answered there?

Sure, one can/must/should show mutual consideration in the neighborhood, but everything has its limits somewhere. The neighbor can't be held responsible for the hypersensitivity of the neighbor lady, and therefore I personally wouldn’t restrict myself in that regard. That may sound harsh, but that’s my personal opinion.

So if my neighbor came to me and described the situation as does here... I would definitely start to think. In the end, continuous music listening wouldn’t be that important to me. And no matter how you look at it, it is inconsiderate to constantly blast the neighbors with sound.
I assume isn’t insisting on complete silence, but is bothered by the really constant noise.
What would be tolerable then?
I would really consider selling only if there is absolutely no solution with the neighbor.
I think going there, clearly expressing with "I-messages" how one experiences it, up to the point that selling the dream house is on the table. The neighbor will have to respond somehow. So as I said, personally, that would really get to me as a neighbor. That one is not willing to meet the other halfway even a little bit, I find simply pathetic. Sorry, . Does it have to be 24/7 constant noise? Going down to 0/0 leaves plenty of room for a compromise.

This now misses my intended meaning. Maybe I am also expressing myself unclearly. Especially in a Gorm, perhaps not too much should be read into it.

Correction Gorm = Forum :D Addition: From time to time I also use ‘I’ instead of ‘we’. It just caught my attention more often in the said thread and post.

So if my neighbor came to me and described the situation like does here... I would really start to think. In the end, constant music listening wouldn't be that important to me. And no matter how you look at it, it's inconsiderate to subject the neighbors to permanent noise. I assume does not insist on complete silence, but she is bothered by the really constant noise. What would be tolerable then? I would really only consider selling if there is absolutely no solution with the neighbor. I think you should go, describe clearly with "I-messages" how it affects you, up to the point that selling the dream house is on the table. The neighbor will have to respond somehow. So as I said, personally, that would touch me as a neighbor. I find it simply pathetic that one is not willing to meet the other halfway at all. Sorry, . Does it have to be constant noise 24/7? Up to 0/0 is plenty of room for a compromise.

From the stories I conclude that from now on she will be disturbed by any music from the neighbor, even if it only plays twice a month. The child is already in the well. And demanding no music from the neighbor on his property, no matter how quiet it is, is exaggerated in my opinion.

And no matter how you look at it, it is inconsiderate to constantly subject the neighbors to loud music.
I assume does not insist on complete silence, but she is bothered by the really constant noise.
What would be tolerable then?

I see it the same way, but as you can see here in the forum, there are very different opinions on this. Judges also decide on such disputes always depending on the individual case and differently.

For those who believe it wouldn't bother her:
Imagine you have a small child who is slowly growing up. You have planted the first lawn, the son can walk and kicks a few balls with dad in your own garden for the very first time – you make a video of it – and you hear the neighbor’s droning all the time in the recording. Then there are other afternoons, other "first times," other beautiful family moments that you record – but never without country music in the video.
Would that really not bother you?

The little one has a birthday tomorrow. I would have wished that we could give him his sandbox (the sand is not in yet, it was loud again today and I cried again instead of working outside)... and I would have wished that we could record a video in the garden again tomorrow. But honestly? I am already afraid of it. So we will probably close the door and celebrate inside. :(