Selling new construction after receiving funding / Wohnriester - possible?

I replied to you in your other thread! Do you get something like this here?

So, I see nothing - although I'm not aware of any thread by the OP that I wouldn't watch; I also don't see it under "new posts."

Also, I see nothing - although I am not aware of any thread from the OP that I would not be watching; I also do not see it with "new posts".

I do not always receive a notification for new entries in the threads I am watching either.

Sure, the spouse may not be fully proficient in the German language, but I would still use the "we-form," even if it were actually "my" task/work.

Moinschd etzed, mir kennet älles ausr Hochdaidsch ?

This alone for reasons of togetherness and (hopefully) shared mindset. At least here in building a soundproof wall.

No one has the intention to build a wall :-)

Nevertheless, I don't believe that the problem really lies in the neighbor's music. If you allow yourself to be so upset and completely thrown off by such a 'minor issue,' then something is fundamentally wrong. This has nothing to do with sensitivity anymore. I really don't like annoying background noise either, so in principle, I understand the problem. You talk about hate, you don't like the house anymore, you just want to get away, etc. I see a deeper underlying problem; a reasonably balanced and content person wouldn't let it get that far. Furthermore, you obviously can't even begin to talk to the neighbor. I don't understand that either. I'm sure that just taking the step to tell him that he listens to music very often, that you fully notice it, and that it ruins your day, will really help you move forward. Just saying it out loud will do you good. Besides that, with or without help, you will have to look inside yourself and explore what makes you so unhappy/vulnerable that it could come to this at all. Working solely with the approach that you are just sensitive and the others should be considerate is neither realistic nor productive.

I miss the "we-form" in all of kati’s explanations. It says: - I have to make a phone call ... - I have to build a (soundproof) wall ... - I try to fill the sandbox - I try to plant the plants ... - At least: I would have to advertise that WE are looking ... - At the property boundary I would have to get approval ... Sure, the spouse may not be fully proficient in German, but I would still use the "we-form," even if it was actually "my" task/work. This alone for reasons of togetherness and (hopefully) the same mindset. At least here when building a soundproof wall. It doesn’t have to mean anything, it just catches my eye ...

As I have already mentioned, I have had several years of therapy, and there I learned that especially with people who say a lot of "we" or "one" instead of "I," something is usually a bit off. ;) These are evasive formulations. I was nudged for years whenever I used such evasive words, so at some point I stopped doing it. ;) In most of the cases mentioned above I used "I" because I am the one who would/wants to do it. Why should my husband, who speaks broken German, conduct a contract phone call or write an advertisement? Why should I have him plant the plants that I bought? ... etc.

Gather all your courage and tell him or show him this post, that just can't be.

And then? I mean, what is one hoping to achieve from that?

This is clearly about an almost "pathological" hypersensitivity to music from a single person. Should/will the neighbor now stop listening to music because a neighbor might feel disturbed by it at any time? Sure, one can/must/should show mutual consideration in the neighborhood, but everything has its limits somewhere. The neighbor is not responsible for the hypersensitivity of the neighbor, and therefore I personally would not restrict myself in that respect. That may sound harsh, but that is my personal opinion.