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as Plan A to wait with planning the self-built house until at least K1 is out of diapers.

Aha, so I start planning my house when child 1 is about 2-3 years old. The planning should of course be well thought out so that I tear the child away from their social environment just in time for starting school. But the room layout will surely appreciate it. Really no words...

well, your sometimes complexly nested sentences and your "verbose" way of expression can occasionally lead to misunderstandings ;-) if you don't read everything thoroughly twice. I was also puzzled by the "Angry-Button" and can only explain it with my explanation above.

Interesting discussion. I am truly grateful for all your input and have learned a lot from you already in this long discussion. One thing I have learned from you is that building a house comes with many compromises and considerations. Land, zoning plan, budget, and so on.

The aforementioned topic “[früheres Haus vs. späteres Haus mit gereiften Kindern]” falls exactly into this category for me. We simply think differently here. The external circumstances for purchasing the land and the private conditions fit perfectly at the moment for the project start. Besides, it is not in our interest to wait until 40-45+ to build the house – provided it is affordable. We have the desire and energy to build here and now, so we are doing it. Children are very adaptable and can grow up in any environment. Otherwise, there would be a huge problem in many areas of this world. It is only important to me to anticipate and incorporate the most relevant needs of children in a house as well as possible without ruining our adult dream.

Uh no - You leave me speechless. I had already explained that I do not mean liking it by any means in the stylistic sense. Children change their parents’ worldview much like a chronology "before/after Christ." At the maturity stage "still before parenthood," planning a house so that it suits the whole family as a home is heideröslein holladiewaldfee a breathtakingly daring project for hardened professional Russian roulette kamikaze pilots, requiring a lot of luck. Respect! I only dare such things thanks to decades of planning experience, and still always advise those wanting to build and start a family to wait with self-planning the house as Plan A until at least K1 is out of diapers.

Then you just hire an interior designer specialized in children to redesign the kids' wing. And I mean that completely unironically, thanks to my experience with the top 1 percent.

Perhaps someone might take pity at some point and address my actual specific questions :)

Then you simply hire an interior designer specialized in children’s spaces to redesign the children’s wing. And I mean that completely seriously, thanks to my experience with the top 1 percent.

100% agree. A wonderfully furnished office room today can be transformed into a breathtaking children’s room in X years.