Duplex - Trouble with the Neighbor

But older people want respect, why can't children expect that?!

Yes, I stand by it, I can't stand those older people who immediately say: "oh God, the family has children, I can't stand these brats, I'm selling my house"

Hello, give these children a chance, maybe these children are very sweet?!

But if a dog comes too close to someone, sniffs them and barks continuously, then people say: "oh, he's very sweet, he's just curious"
Suddenly that's normal.

Who here has ever said that children cannot/should not expect respect? Setting boundaries for improper behavior is not disrespect.
And that your former neighbors "fled" because someone with children showed up is not disrespect, but rather a consistent life decision first and foremost. If they had smeared you with the yet unproven shortcomings of your offspring, that would have been disrespect.

THOSE brats? Specifically? I have heard a lot, but never that.

I can't stand either:


People who have something against children (this is not about wanting peace and quiet!)
&
Parents who have children and can’t raise them or take care of them !!

This whole discussion, I can’t expect everyone to like my children, but older people want respect, why can’t children expect that?!

Children can be annoying, I even support older people moving away then, even though it’s a shame.

But I stand by it, I can’t stand those older people who immediately say: "oh God, the family has kids, I can’t stand these brats, I’m selling my house" (It depends on the condition, there are people who simply can’t stand children, just as there are people who can’t stand foreigners etc.)

Hello, give these children a chance, maybe these kids are really sweet?!

My grandma was 90 and was constantly happy when she saw children, she always had sweets.

As a child, my neighbor was also like that, which was super nice… "the grandma next door"

Two years ago I was on a tram, a woman was with her child and a friend. She was breastfeeding her little child and the looks from people....
Then I had to say it: "You don’t have to look!"
I am male and straight, but you have to have decency, breastfeeding in public is normal to me.
What’s not normal is when couples make out in public etc. I as an adult can handle that, but children can’t.

But if a dog comes too close to someone, sniffs, and barks continuously, then people say: "oh, he’s really sweet, he’s just curious"
Suddenly that’s normal.


Live and let live, with respect and tolerance!!


PEACE!!

They were not my neighbors, but my brother’s. All contact was avoided repeatedly, and you call that a "consistent life decision"? (sorry, I have to laugh). If I experienced something like that as a child, I would be sad about it, I would feel out of place, because children have something like honor & pride as well.

And yes, if parents greet these neighbors and they stay silent = it’s disrespectful!
If children greet these neighbors and they stay silent = it’s disrespectful!

What happens: just an evil/annoyed look from the neighbor

When people say: "Guys, I’m sorry, I really want peace and quiet, so I’ll sell my house and move somewhere else, hoping to finally have peace"
Everyone can do whatever they want, but if a family makes an effort, then for me it has to do with respect, to explain my situation to them, after all, we are neighbors and you have to see that the other side at least tried.

If you’ve never heard that before, then I hereby claim to be the inventor of the word .

I think you’re taking some things too personally here... ..., and have sniffed a bit too much of something. And quite a bit earlier it comes out: if you’re childless, you’re immediately a child-hater. No... Yvonne, don’t argue here with those affected – they lack foresight and take everything personally

This whole discussion, I can’t expect everyone to like my kids, but older people want respect, why can’t children expect that?!

Children can be annoying, I even support older people moving away then, even if it’s a shame.

But I stand by it, I can’t stand those older people who immediately say: "oh God, the family has kids, I can’t stand those brats, I’m selling my house" (It depends on the situation, there are people who basically can’t stand children, just as there are people who don’t like foreigners, etc.)

Hello, give these kids a chance, maybe they are very sweet?!

My grandma was 90 and was always happy when she saw children, there was always something sweet.

As a child, my neighbor was like that too, which was super nice... "the grandma next door"

Two years ago I was in a streetcar, a woman was with her child and a friend. She breastfed her little child and the looks from the people... Then I had to say: "you don’t have to look!"

I am male and straight, but one must have decency, breastfeeding in public is normal to me. What’s not normal is when couples make out outside etc. I as an adult can handle that, but children cannot.

But when a dog comes too close to someone, sniffs them and barks continuously, then people say: "oh, he’s very sweet, he’s just curious" That suddenly becomes normal.

Live and let live, with respect and tolerance!!

PEACE!!