Duplex - Trouble with the Neighbor

: Didn't your site manager want to talk to the neighbor today? Are there any updates - then we can also get back a little to the actual "problem"

at 4 pm.

Until then, I'll read on here with interest

By the way, I wouldn't end a friendship because of a wedding without children. But as a mother, it would hurt me a little. But it's all in the tone. And if it is explained in an understanding way, it's okay! It is your day. I would be considerate of that. There were children at my wedding.

and from 9 pm...........

at 4 p.m.

until then I read on here eagerly

By the way, I wouldn’t end a friendship because of a wedding without children.
But as a mother, it would hurt me a little bit. But it’s all about the tone.
And if you get it explained in an understanding way, it’s fine!
It’s your day. I would be considerate of that.
There were children at my wedding.

and from 9 p.m...........

Please report then!

THAT'S EXACTLY how we did it! I don't know why you always have to read something into it, aggressively add your two cents when you know nothing about it???!
I don't want children's dances, no bouncy castle, no table magician. It's not a children's birthday party! It's a day for my wife and me. Anyone who doesn't accept THAT is, in my opinion, selfish! The kids can happily be the center of attention the other 364 days.
I'm not talking about teenage children, but about children who depend on their parents and constantly have to be occupied by them!

That's your right, you pay for the music, you decide who gets in and who doesn't.

I interpret it as I perceive it and wouldn't be friends with you either. You started the friend discussion, not me.

Maybe you or your wife are also dissatisfied with the overall situation.

We once had a very good couple of friends, the former best friend eventually freaked out when we had our first child and they came to visit us. He lashed out at her, always the children in the foreground, he couldn't stand it anymore bla blubb.

He never wanted a child but didn't want to lose her. At first, we were enemies with the child.

They had another child three years after us when she wanted to leave him. Now they have a forced child that holds the marriage together. The friendship is gone. I didn't want anything to do with him anymore.

Honestly, I don't want anything to do with you either. Your reaction reminds me of Frank back then. He was also a little Alessandro and didn't want a bouncy castle, club, sports, kids' gymnastics.

yes, to each their own.
Other opinions when it comes to one's own children are hardly accepted anymore by "modern" parents.
These are the soccer dads who call the coach and ask why little Kai is not in the starting lineup on the weekend, just because he couldn't attend practice this week due to schoolwork and grandma's name day

you don't even have children. how do you want to know that, Frank?

is based on mutuality. You really do fulfill all the clichés. I was a youth handball coach for many years.

at 4 pm.

until then I will read on here with anticipation

By the way, I wouldn’t end a friendship because of a wedding without children.
But as a mother, it would hurt me a little bit. But it’s all about the tone.
And if it’s explained with understanding, it’s fine!
It’s your day. I would be considerate.
There were children at my wedding.

and from 9 pm...........

and when little Alessandro and his baggage get their first brat, you’re allowed to come to little Frank’s kids' birthday party Because little brat Frank wants to be shown around what a great one Alessandro has there^^