Joedreck
2020-04-18 12:20:20
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Mine are also very loud. The girl screams nonstop instead of talking. They don’t even meet each other, but shout into the house when something’s going on. For me, part of upbringing is teaching the child that they’re not alone in the world. That you don’t have to scream all the time, and if you do, then only inside. But if one means only supervision instead of upbringing, then I can’t understand that. There probably isn’t any basis for agreement there. Yesterday I was lying on the lounger in the garden and put on music—so loud that I couldn’t hear them. Then that brat actually stood at the garden fence several times and shouted something with “....neighbors”. She literally screamed... I shouted back, asking if I was too loud... after that it was bearable.
A neighbor without children once told me: playing children are calming, and she was right about that.
But there is a difference between playing and screaming. People involved in childcare should be able to recognize that!
Because I don’t think it’s appropriate as it is! Playing, yes, very loud, no. I can well imagine that doesn’t know the difference either as a father... don’t take it the wrong way, but if you reflect on others (neighbors, or your own children), you pay attention to the difference.
Hmm yes, but... children are allowed to be loud. Especially when playing. They also always speak louder than adults. And yes, I also know the difference between loud, quiet, very loud, very quiet...
The problem is, it’s all very individual.
Also the topic of upbringing. For that reason, it simply isn’t worth having a general discussion about such topics.
Of course, I also have my own opinion about the topic of loudness and (lack of) child upbringing. I just would never think of discussing it with other people. Especially not with people without children.