Duplex - Trouble with the Neighbor

  • Erstellt am 2020-04-15 15:43:52

Sandrasix

2020-04-17 21:30:01
  • #1
Very numerous contributions

on the topic of children and noise levels there are different opinions.
I'll put it this way.
If I had a Ferrari, MY loud car wouldn't bother me.
But if someone drives along the street during my usual quiet hours, it could annoy me.
I think that's human.

I also believe that it is not an obligation to love children.
One should only respect every child and show understanding for their ignorance.

I also understand anyone who would sell their house or buy land to maintain their peace and comfort zone.

Tastes are fortunately different.

By the way, we will most likely meet the loudmouth.
 

Yaso2.0

2020-04-17 22:27:56
  • #2
If he continues to behave like that, there is only one thing to do – shout back. That then seems to be the only "language" he understands..

A few months ago, I also had trouble with my neighbors from another semi-detached house. He kept shouting at me and his wife was swearing and cursing out of the window.
I was not given the opportunity to clarify the misunderstanding at that moment and I remained silent the whole time.

For months he "picked" at things behind his hedge and I never reacted.. but over the weekend I lost my temper when he thought he could complain to the youth welfare office about 2 children (1 of them is mine) who were drawing with chalk in front of our driveway because they were loud. I then did the same as he did and suddenly he asked if we could talk.. The end of the story: he apologized..
 

Vicky Pedia

2020-04-17 22:33:21
  • #3
Oh yes, it is the duty of parents/adults to love children, their own especially. I know a mother for whom her own children are too much/in the way because she wants to be "free." I find it awful when children suddenly stand in the way of house/family/car planning. When children are loud, isn’t that a call for attention?
 

Sandrasix

2020-04-17 22:45:14
  • #4
Very nicely written by you!
 

Sandrasix

2020-04-17 22:54:19
  • #5
But a question for you. I also asked my site manager that. (he wants to explain and show it to me on site on Monday) How do you insulate a floor slab to your neighbor's house? Is there a DIN standard?
 

Vicky Pedia

2020-04-17 22:54:54
  • #6
Thank you! It concerns me personally right now, so perhaps more emotions. It is not the children, but the parents who show freedom as well as boundaries. Thanks for the emotions!
 
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