Duplex - Trouble with the Neighbor

It would have been great to have some of you as neighbors!!!!!!!!!!!

It is never too late ........now I am curious, name the "some".

So, when I read all this, I can understand more and more.

It would have been great to have some of you as neighbors!!!!!!!!!!!

But apparently, I am not alone with my problem.

Well, I would know that if I didn’t want “us” here as neighbors
One with paranoia, another always thinks they're right, the next doesn’t want neighbors, so not me, another has 4 unruly kids, another becomes the neighborhood cop, yet another will surely check the property line at night, then there’s the one you can’t get rid of, then there’s the snob and the troublemaker ...

(the latter can also be swapped with the )

You can call me naive now, I don't care what they do, and I have never once peeked at what they are making on their property, I simply am not interested.

Also, please don’t misunderstand me, this attitude honors you and I find it very likeable, but still, because of that this here:

But then they should also leave us alone.

simply might not be achievable. Some people are not like that. The funny thing is this:

By the way, the marking point of our surveyor is no longer there, but a proper boundary stone has appeared. Next to the paved area of the gardener. Whether it has always been there, no idea, as there was a layer of gravel several centimeters deep. Whether it has been eroded over the years, no idea

Boundary stones move over time, boundaries do not. Provided it was done without error, your survey counts no matter where which stone appears. So here, without seeking any discussion, a clear signal is being sent. This is not mature. So much for what other people conclude from your attitude, which I find likeable...

Well, I would know if I didn't want "us" here as neighbors
One with paranoia, another always right, the next doesn't want neighbors, so not me, the next has 4 unruly children, another becomes the neighborhood cop, another will surely check the property boundary at night, then the one you can't get rid of, then there is the snob and the troublemaker...

(that one is also interchangeable with the )

You can definitely mention the names here ... go ahead, be brave!

It's never too late ........ now I'm curious, go ahead and name the "Some" .

I would be happy with you as a neighbor, too
You just stick to your opinion, and I think you're then hard to reach for other perspectives.
I don't mean that negatively!!!
There were really funny things included
I thought it was great of you to have made your contribution here! Despite the headwind

There really were nice and factual contributions here.
Above all, it did my peace of mind a lot of good!

I also looked around in other areas (here in the forum).

Amazing what’s lurking around here!!!!

the next one doesn't want neighbors, so not me,

Hello ypg

the thread is already so long, it can, in my opinion, meander even more. I want and have neighbors. A whole village full. We have 42 houses and one and a half streets (I built half of one). My neighbors (except for one) are lovely people. With whom you can spontaneously have a beer while gardening. Or chat at the village parties. And drink a few more beers. The one neighbor, I call the troop "my Flodders," but he has been quiet for a year. Driver's license gone (drunkenness [once he was driving towards me with almost 2 ‰], frequent driving with unregistered vehicles, driving without a license, fraud, etc. A petty criminal basically. He got 16 months probation. Didn’t bother him. Then he skipped the bailiff. 3 days coercive detention. Now he is well-behaved. I learned about the scams from creditors who occasionally ring my doorbell asking for him. Otherwise, great neighbor. Also with children. I contribute financially to the children’s festivals, St. Martin’s Day, and who knows what else. My property (1,000 m²) faces south. Behind that comes the 6,000 m² of garden land. "My" street is a service road, which I paved, that leads there. And I’m worried that a clever investor will buy up the land, use his connections, and build several apartment buildings on it. And behind that is a stream. That’s why, to protect my view, I want to buy the garden land.

Steven