Duplex - Trouble with the Neighbor

2020-04-19 11:52:19

1) You don't buy children

It's a pity, actually.

2) You can make some yourself, provided it's biologically possible

It didn't work out, unfortunately.

2020-04-19 11:57:20

Did not work out, unfortunately.

I'm really sorry for you, but don't give up!!!!

Maybe it can still work out.

I always find it very sad when someone wants it and it doesn't work out, unfortunately there are also bad parents who have children without any problems.

I am in favor of a driver's license for parents who want to have children.

Life can be beautiful with or without children.

All the best!!!

2020-04-19 11:59:59

I'm really sorry for you, but don't give up !!!! Maybe it can still work out.

Um, no, but thanks for your good intentions. I'm not dying of sorrow either. What one never had, one cannot miss - well, or let's say, one will miss less.

2020-04-19 12:05:46

I can't stand either:

People who have something against children (I'm not talking about wanting peace and quiet here!)
&
Parents who have children and can't raise them or can't take care of them!!

I didn't want to offend anyone with my statements and if I did, I apologize for that.

Have a nice Sunday!

2020-04-19 12:23:59

Hello dear members

Thanks to Google, I became aware of your nice forum. Unfortunately, as it often is, a problem brought me here

We are building an extension onto an existing semi-detached house in Baden-Württemberg.
We are building on a slab foundation. The nice neighbor built his half with a basement.
We live 70 kilometers away from the construction site.
Therefore, with both of us working and two children, we cannot be at the construction site hourly.
Yesterday morning, the workers started with the formwork for the slab foundation.
When I went to the construction site yesterday, my nice neighbor was already waiting for me.
He yelled at me quite a bit. He was extremely angry.
The slab foundation next to his side would only be insulated with Styrodur.
A worker tried to explain to him that the slab foundation is insulated with Styrodur and additionally equipped with a 4 cm soundproof wall at the house.
He still didn’t calm down.
He just kept yelling. He said he would take pictures and that he wouldn’t pay anything.

We also do not intend to ask him for any money.
I was really shocked!!!

Actually, he should be worried, because he built 3 cm of the total length of his house over our property.

How does it look legally?
I told my husband.
He actually wanted to go to a lawyer right away.
Peace with the neighbor is more valuable to me.

Please excuse my spelling mistakes and my ignorance. I have two children and have to keep them entertained at the same time.

Thank you, Sandra

How did the second meeting with the neighbor go? I hope you can somehow reconcile. I also find his behavior shocking, whether towards a woman or children, that is just generally bottom of the barrel. Regarding the legal side, I can’t comment because I don’t know much about it. However, I would take the neighbor’s concerns seriously and have them checked, if only to avoid making myself unnecessarily vulnerable afterwards.

To the others: We have children and they are sometimes loud and that bothers me too, but I can’t and won’t oppress them. We bought a house so that the children can run and play in the garden. We prevent unnecessary shouting, but not normal play. Our neighbors all have no children, but grandchildren; they regularly have their celebrations and a lot of visitors, so it’s a give and take. We also have a terrier who sometimes barks at dogs at the fence, yes, that’s annoying too. We certainly aren’t model neighbors, but we get along well with everyone here and we tolerate each other’s disturbances and live and let live.

2020-04-19 12:32:09

Can we open our own thread for the children's noise discussion? I have now flipped through pages to see if there is any feedback from . I am hoping for a positive response after an unfortunate start.

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