Duplex - Trouble with the Neighbor

Please first clarify whether everything is okay with the soundproofing, no matter who pays for it now ... Your neighbor seems to be exactly worried about that and if mistakes are made there and he can hear you through the stupid wall, well then have fun in the new house, it will be pure hell.

If someone yells at me like that, I would also listen to it and after 10 minutes just say "excuse me? Sorry, I wasn't paying attention just now."

But he just shouted. I had my children with me, and that's why I stayed calm.

Regarding the shouting
1) as a man towards a woman = antisocial
2) as a man towards small children = antisocial
3) you reacted exemplary

I also had a problem with my new neighbor, who kept telling all kinds of stories behind my back, acting like a village sheriff.

First, I confronted him on the phone, then directly on site, my message was = which mode does he want, terror or peace/harmony?!

Every time he sees me now: Good morning Mr. .......

Every person deserves respect, some don’t care, show attitude, try to accommodate him, if he doesn’t want it, then he can go to hell, quite simply!

PS: My brother built a house, he has children, the neighbors (an elderly couple) immediately sold their house. In the end it turned out that my brother’s children were to blame. Nothing had happened before.
My brother and his children couldn’t even imagine it, they were not given the chance, with some people you just can’t help.

Good luck!!

My brother built a house, he has children, the neighbors (an elderly couple) immediately sold their house.

Cool, we will probably get a new neighbor soon too. If they have children, we'll build a 3m wall right away.

PS: My brother built a house, he has children, the neighbors (an elderly couple) immediately sold their house. In the end, it turned out that my brother's children were to blame. Nothing had happened before. My brother and his children couldn't even imagine it, he wasn't given the chance, sometimes you can't help certain people.

Crazy. That such people really exist... Unbelievable. I think the advice to act together and that the man supports the woman is really very good. Otherwise, there are also incorrigible contemporaries, but that is rare. With one neighbor of mine (an older gentleman), it didn't go so well at first either. We then talked once, he asked for it, and since then it has been quiet, we greet each other, exchange a few words. I don't have to hug him. He said back then, house, garden, sick wife, sometimes it's too much for him and then there are overreactions. I really found it very honest of him to admit that. I wish you that you still come to a reasonable relationship.

Insane. That there really are such people...

Hello

for me that is completely understandable.
I also love children. But I also love my peace.
My consequence from that: behind my property (clear view to the Mediterranean) there are 6,000m² of garden land. As soon as that is sold (I am already in contact with the owner) I will buy it. So that no one can build houses on it. My peace is worth that to me.

Steven