Duplex - Trouble with the Neighbor

There are two kinds

the ones

the others

Sad, this black-and-white thinking that you show. You do not accept other opinions, but babble about tolerance. Almost pathetic.

(Yes, I do have children)

Sad, this black-and-white thinking that you display. You don't accept other opinions, but you babble about tolerance. Almost pathetic. (Yes, I do have children)

Yep, it's pathetic, but it's also pathetic that you don't read my statements completely, I was talking about "frequently"...... Why is it not allowed to have a different opinion here, why is it seen as pathetic, who am I personally attacking with it?! Every person here who has nothing against children does not need to feel addressed! Every person here who simply does not like children (I am talking about disparagingly) should feel addressed!!

Tumaa, actually I didn’t want to say anything about this topic here (since I am also the ignorant one and not entitled to judge without children, yeah yeah), but honestly: what’s your problem? That the neighbors of your brother, who obviously didn’t want to tolerate children’s noise, moved away without asking for permission first? Seriously?

Just think through in your mind what it would look like if they had stayed there. THEN there would be a reason to complain, I agree with you. That would have been trouble waiting to happen. But as it is? Perfectly solved – for both sides, I would say.

And that these bad, bad neighbors were so disrespectful and ignored your brother’s children, didn’t greet back – oh god, the poor, delicate little souls. No, it’s not polite and nice – but honestly: you will have to put up with people like that your whole life, even as an adult. Your brother’s job would have been (and hopefully was) to make the kids understand that there are simply such sourpusses and you shouldn’t let yourself be brought down by them. Lessons learned – for life.

I would say a big hallelujah if such neighbors moved away (my envy is surely with your brother – I have neighbors like that too, with whom I would welcome such behavior – selling the house – with open arms!).

That the neighbors of your brother, who obviously do not want to endure children's noise, moved away without asking for permission first? Are you serious?

Permission? No, this is not required, it has to do with clarification.

I have no problem here, I am just representing my point of view. I might get a problem if suddenly my wife no longer wants to be with me .....

Addition about the neighbors: I heard that they wanted to sell their house, I did not know the reason at the time, a cousin was interested in the house, when I asked the owner (she seemed to be a shrew, the husband was not allowed to go out, she blocked him) said: No, we are not selling our house, people are spreading lies (she said it very unfriendly as well).
Two weeks later the house was sold, the new owner then told my brother: during the viewing appointments we should enter as inconspicuously as possible, always from the basement, the neighborhood should not find out anything.

On one point I agree with you, namely that they moved away.

Every person who simply can't stand children here (I'm talking about derogatory), should feel addressed!!

Tumaa, no one here has anything against children. You are completely getting yourself worked up because you’re putting a lot of wrong into the comments.

I was talking about "frequently"

You assign one of your black-and-white subsets blanket attributes that you have deduced for yourself based on hearsay about the behavior of others, and you try to soften this with "frequently," but at the same time you imply a general validity. That doesn't make it any better.