How did you resolve disagreements with your partner?

There are many partnerships where a mine/yours + will must be clearly regulated. To prevent the feeling of "grace" from even arising, I would omit the "money card". My wife earns well, yet there is a clear separation. Women who take care of children do contribute something. Although this does not generate income, otherwise one would have to pay for external care... But that should only be credited half since children should also be a joint decision. My wife is secured even though the house belongs to me. It would also be pointless to transfer half to her since she would otherwise have to pay gift tax. In the case of inheritance, it is (currently) tax-free because it is the self-occupied family property.

Chand, but it has to fit the type. If I had tried to clarify everything beforehand, we wouldn't be together anymore. I probably would have exaggerated for him and planned too detailed, while for my partner it was already too early to have to deal with the kitchen topic while the electrician was working and wanted an electrical plan.

Whoever stubbornly wants to impose their character (me planning everything beforehand vs him little by little and only when it's due) loses. The approach has to suit both of us reasonably in the end.

What do you think, why did I drag my husband into everything early on?!
So that I could plan. Of course, I then included his statements in my planning, so there could only be one common denominator.
P.s. I am the more creatively planning part, I include his stubbornness in the planning *psst*

Go to a tile exhibition beforehand and test your partner.
First matte or glossy, big or small... the creative part imagines scenarios... and usually there are later tiles that suit both. Amateurs and accessories are then chosen to match and not again by "taste." Of course, they also have to look good

Sorry, but anyone who thinks you can move any person at any time into any rooms they don't currently consider necessary to visit is a bit detached from reality. Nice that it worked with your husband, but I thought I had made it clear enough that something like that doesn't work with mine.

Sorry, but anyone who thinks they can move any person at any time into any premises they don't currently consider necessary to visit is a bit out of touch with reality. Nice that it worked with your husband, but I thought I had made it clear enough that this doesn’t work with mine.

If he’s not interested, then give him your 3 favorites (you will know his no-gos) and that's it.

Sorry, but anyone who thinks they can move any person at any time into any premises whose inspection they currently do not consider necessary is a bit detached from reality. Nice that it worked with your husband, but I thought I had made it clear enough that something like that doesn't work with mine.

Then I’ll stay seated now and give myself a 6, ok.. and again sorry, sorry, sorry.... that I didn’t interpret someone’s clear remark the way the person meant it.

When we were building the house, there were only two of us, and I was led to believe that I also had a say, or rather, that I was allowed to make decisions together.
Now there are three of us, and they don’t even bother to let me believe anymore that I’m allowed to decide anything myself...
I’m going to mow the lawn now....