rick2018
2019-05-02 15:20:52
- #1
Did you want the lawn or her?
Whoever stubbornly wants to impose their character (me planning everything beforehand vs him little by little and only when it is due), loses.
Organization = me
Appearance = her or both
both together = move-in without separation (very likely)
That also describes our situation very very well.
In addition:
"You only build once, so do it right" (my wife)
vs.
"The simplest and most pragmatic option" (me)
This definitely leads to small "disputes," because I simply reject suggestions in order to definitely stay within budget. But so far it's all harmless.