How did you resolve disagreements with your partner?

Everything is a bit strange. I still think so. All the separate accounts are ultimately more unfortunate.

well then we will end up unhappy in the end... no, we won’t. We will hardly argue about separate accounts, I am also quite glad that I have mine separate, because even if HE sometimes pays for shoes for me, I ultimately know what I can afford from my work, and when I should spend a little less again.

I also respect your opinion that gratitude has no place in an equal relationship. However, I do not share it at all.

I agree with that. For example, I am very grateful to my husband that he tolerates some quirks of mine... and quite a few other things. But even that is not one-sided in our case and I can’t find anything bad about this word.

I also respect your opinion that gratitude has no place in an equal relationship. However, I do not share it at all.

You philosophize about understanding others and yourself quote / interpret completely incorrectly. That is exactly what was not written.

You philosophize about understanding others and yourself quote / interpret completely incorrectly. That is exactly not what was written.

That's right. By now there is a lot of contradiction to be read there.

But that is not one-sided with us either and I also cannot find anything bad in this word.

No one here says that this word is bad

To put it unequivocally: I consider gratitude an inadequate substitute for appreciation. These are two fundamentally different concepts. Gratitude is directed from bottom to top. Appreciation is situated on an equal level.

There is no need to read anything into this; I mean exactly what I write.

In an equal relationship, gratitude has no place, but rather,......

You philosophize about understanding others and quote / interpret yourself completely wrong. That is exactly what was not written.

That's right. By now, there is a lot of contradiction to be read.

No one here says that this word is bad

Contradiction... aha... interesting...

And

Show me where I write that someone claims gratitude is bad...

It's just annoying when you're on a mission and therefore overlook / misinterpret or read into everything instead of reading what is actually written.

It seems to me that this is not about content at all, but rather about a game of who is right. Nobody wants to lose. Period. Regardless of the content. Then you just spin things...

It's just annoying when you're on a mission and therefore overlook/misinterpret or read into everything instead of reading what is actually there.

It's just annoying when you can't differentiate between the users and lump them all together.