How did you resolve disagreements with your partner?

I have also noticed that many handle the "obviously" that way. Often also with tax class distribution V/III. Pretty stupid, whoever agrees to that. I don't care at all who separates or combines accounts, but if you separate, then do it properly – and fairly splitting the tax refund or additional payment is anything but trivial. We arrived at the only joint account via the intermediate steps of "joint household account" and "joint main account plus a pocket money account for each." We operate detailed budget planning, and everyone has their own private pocket money category within it. That works well for us. All money that comes in is ours, and we plan it together (of course, except for money gifts explicitly given to one of us)

Of course the man has 3 and the submissive woman has the 5 with her account!!

Somehow you have a thorn stuck very deep. Shame

You have fully taken advantage of your husband's color blindness. Disgusting