pagoni2020
2021-04-10 16:24:46
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I can easily imagine your discussion group :D and especially how you feel afterwards.......o_O If simplicity alone were enough, then I would have the best chances at it.:D:D:D. I try it in this area with a bit of calmness....trying...... Of course, no one wants a defective house and nowadays, or as you also read here in the forum, there are always like 80 million armchair experts right away. What you describe was similar with my first build in 1990. I had zero knowledge and gave the construction to a well-known shell builder. I didn’t ask about stones, foundation, or anything else, I thought he would handle it, and he did. Similar with the rest and mostly I awarded contracts based on sympathy or in my opinion existing competence (I was probably easy to impress) and I felt I got along very well with that for MY feeling! Even back then in the neighborhood, there were exclusively armchair experts who imposed their knowledge on me unsolicited while looking down on me slightly contemptuously. When I later did heed one of those smart pieces of advice and tips in individual cases (this tiler is the best, I only use him etc.), I often got annoyed. Of course, there is also a lot of knowledge here and I partly benefit from it. Just as there is – as before – the department of armchair experts, and one shouldn’t let that unsettle them too much. The art is to find the real armchair expert :D I also believe that my happiness at home only depends to a lesser extent on such technical matters, which may seem strange to some. The more police or security you see on the street, the more you think it must be dangerous. Even if the comparison is not perfect, I still believe that in the end you can build the most beautiful house for yourself, even if you had trouble at the beginning or some things are not handled in an armchair expert way. What’s the use of the best calculated values if the mood is mostly crappy anyway? I know people with technically very mediocre houses who are in a very good mood. Maybe you should keep more out of these circles, as they just like to spread bad mood or cover up their own mess anyway..... There was once a thread here where the OP understandably got really angry when he saw on his video recording how a craftsman peed in his bucket. That’s disgusting and probably sticks in your mind for a while. If he had no camera or had spent his time gardening instead of video sessions, he would have felt better. You read here often,... despite experts and whatnot, things happen and troubles arise. With the Internet, it doesn’t get better; what a blessing that it didn’t exist back then, otherwise I probably would have lived unhappily in my beautiful house for 30 years. Too much knowledge can also cause stress.I once said, "Blessed are the simple-minded, for to them belongs the carefree (not flawless) construction." or something like that...