In short: Lower the level and slope so far that it is just warm enough in the coldest room on cold + dark days.
Misunderstanding on my part or did you formulate it incorrectly?
Doesn't the heating curve need to be lowered so far that
the warmest room is just warm enough? You then regulate the colder ones via the flow rate.
By the way, it took me about 3 years for that.
In the first and second year I adjusted the heating curve using the ERR.
At first, it was too cold for me during the transitional period (so level too high) and in winter it was too warm (so slope down). What you set in the transitional period does not necessarily have to fit in winter and vice versa. So in the next transitional period you check how the settings from winter perform and adjust again.
One winter and one transitional period are therefore not really sufficient or you would have to keep records not only of heating data and settings but also of weather and personal feeling of warmth.
In the third year I gradually adjusted the flow rates and when I no longer had to change anything, I deactivated the valves to get rid of the electricity consumption of the constantly open valve.